What should I do? Accept it as a positive rather than a negative. My heart aches and all I have to show are tears. I think mine has also, we have been married 28 years. Im not doing anything, but wonder if he is again. Many cheating men will say they are going away for a business trip; however, he will actually be meeting someone for an affair. My husband & I have been married a year & dated 5yrs, within the past couple of yrs we went through our ups & downs! I told him if he didnt call me in 5 minutes I would call the number. Hire a private investigator. I feel like somethings is really wrong. Im not sure how to catch him if hes cheating on me. They left together and I am certain they met up at times while I was stuck at work. I think my husband has had an affair. He denied , so did she. The most difficult thing to do when you know your husband is lying about cheating is to leave. Nope!!! And thank God for that because I dont ever want to know what it is like to not know the real meaning of love and not be able to be grateful for the gifts God gave me and to never be happy or satisfied with a person that loves me so much. He denies it, but it is eating away at my heart and self-esteem. I dont know what to do, should I end this now? He gave her his email address. This isnt your fault he is either an addict or He has been doing it his entire life. I have tried speaking to my wife about it many times but her attitude is what we did before was the past and what we do now is how it is and deal with it. Dear Amy: I believe that my 45-year-old husband is having a midlife crisis, abusing drugs, cheating or possibly all three. The supply, putting people on pedestals, no empathy, no remorse, impulsive, full of shame, lack of responsibility , he is jealous of my accomplishments , envious, very envious and resentful. It sounds that way on a lot of these comments actually. Perhaps he cheated because he felt you withheld sex; however, youre likely going to want to work at your marriage before youre intimate with him again. I found out about my boyfriends affair with another woman through his cellphone. He was surprised, and hurt that I would entrap him. For the last 7 years or so, he has been doing so many things that make me feel like he doesnt care how I feel. Why not leave me and go be single and have all these women he can have. If he is lying and you have caught him and if he wants to stay married to the wonderful goddess who puts up with his lying ass then he should agree to do so the moment you suggest it. Your grandma on your moms side? I regret to inform you that you speak the truth. So if you do decide to wing it alone for a while keep these important things in mind and if you befriend the opposite sex during the separation consider them nothing more than just a friend. I assumed they were gifts for me for Valentines Day. I was very upset with my husband but he keeps telling me nothing happened whenever i bring it up but the story always changes. Im hurt like no other knowing my love of my life has done this to me. I asked him to tell me the truth and he told me he was busy. My oldest just had surgery and my husband and I stayed with him at the hospital. When I was walking back to my vehicle, I did not see him or woman that works with him. He was secretive with his emails and phone. Now I find out that the one he met while he was in Italy is not a lesbian like they both said, in fact she gets into detail about being with other guys and how it was with him. Jul 22, 2012 at 4:39 PM. He told me there wasnt a need to do that because he didnt sleep with her. She KNEW he was deleting text. I think it was a control thing. He denies bit I know for a fact he is helping her get into the house by keeping me occupied and distracting me vivdont fall for it anymore but I do know when something is going on. I have been married for 3 years. He did not answer his phone, so I called her phone and asked where he was. Thank you for being here, and sharing your situation. We been married for 10yrs . However, this is extremely unhealthy for both you and those around you. So, your future husband may not be lying about cheating (unless of course you believe that visiting a cheating website is cheating, which I do). ago Please get tested ASAP. Take this quick quiz to see if he actually likes you! I want you to come back and let me know how youre doing. And I left . i feel it is just too early for us to have all these problems.we are just total strangers to each other cos we dont share any privacy together. I dont mean to offend anyone, and I am not speaking from a place of moral judgement. Tell someone! The wife of one of his friends wont tell me the truth about anything that happens, and neither will any of the guys. I cant continue on in a married where I, me, myself, do ALL the work when he wont contribute anything but money to pay the bills. By march i was sure, with no proof. It was a constant, almost hourly effort of rebuilding trust and intimacy in their marriage. Little did I know, he was waiting for the right moment to assault me. My husband and I have 3 kids, the youngest is 2 years old now. Our bodies produce nourishment for our child. One night he was on call at the local tow company he worked for and a text message came in that he slept through. My own story is sad like yours and in trying to discern if I should leave my husband, a dear person told me to break my story down to stupid. So I did, which lead me to leave my husband a last week. My advice to you is leave him alone. So my story is.. But, I think you know that. We dont spend a whole lot of time together because of his job and the kids activities plus I work full time job. I used to be petite and 105 pounds after my first daughter I gained almost 100 pounds. Im so sorry you are going through this! My wife had a roving eye despite the fact that Im hotter (both physically and emotionally) than anybody she ever cheated with. I really love my husband but I dont want to be an idiot. He is very charming and although he is 44 years old he looks like a twenty year old.He has always gone out with his friends and I would always say okay because I was scared that that he would leave me if I would complain and that I would end up alone. I always felt that my husband cheated n me, i ask him once if he have an affair with an0ther woman he said no but the housemaid of my uncle saw them. He said how can we do anything with her Dad and his friend there. I have decided that it is time to move on with my life and we have three children in the midst of this. You never really stated just how you feel though so I cannot be sure. Love yourself, dont cheat with guys who are already involved with other women. There is no magic formula or tip that will help you get over your fiances cheating. We talked about it and it was made clear that it was due to other factors of the current living situation that had nothing to do with each other. Ive been with my husband 7 years we have 3 children together plus he has a dauggter with a girl he cheated on me with, but after so many years of him cheating on me he finally stopped and devoted his life to me and our children. And, he always get upset and denies it. You asked someone that is like my own daughter. In my case I had to hire an investigative team who did everything for me. I dont buy the boss part, Im not a moron. He also admitted that he had been regularly deleting his FB history but that he was careless this one time and forgot to do it. I tell him I love him. Wow. Sometimes when were jealous and suspicious, we drive husbands away from us. It was all his fault. I dont know whether u r going to tell this (Man) wife, but prepared. We hope for the best, but dont always get it. Otherwise, youre going to have to play detective. Then someone told me things just dont pop up like that in any search field. Trust me, Play it cool x. m. mom_at_law. Our sex life is non-existent. The distraction will work wonders for your mental health and help to get those happy hormones pumping through your body. True, he could be acting suspiciously, not telling you whats bothering him, yet that doesnt mean that hes definitely cheating on you. She send a messages with her picture and saying she misses him..Then there is another girl, same country. Because from those details I can piece together an entire picture of why it happened, therefore would be able to understand or forgive my husband. The problem is to really say. I think they have a better handle on whats going on than I ever could (because they know you!). I know this must sound crazy and to extravagant. Please give me your advise.I think my husband has cheated on me with my sister-in-law.my signs are a strong gut feeling and i have seen him looking at her butt several times and and about 4 years ago my sis-in-law and my brother were our neighbors and my brother is a captain offshore so he was gone often.I came home one day and pulled up and my husband came out of there house and the only one that was home was my sis-in-law and my neice which was a baby about 9 months old.when i asked him why he was over there he said he went to see the baby.He has gone out of his way to help her we would have a party and she would be dancing and he would just stare at her.When i would asked him if he did anything with her he gets mad at me and has even cried.then he tells me keep it up just keep it up.So i told him i was going to ask her he got very defensive and said i would not do it because it is gonna cause problems and my relationship with her will never be tha same that i am gonna look stupid when we talk about it he always turns away from me and shakes his head.I did ask her and she said no way i would never do that but she also got caught cheating on my brother before i wonder sometime if that is why i feel this way.I told him i was gonna talk to my brother about it and he got very defensive he said because of my feelings that i am pushing him away so he turns everything around on me and makes me believe i have a problem.Do I?What can i do to stop this feeling how do i find out the truth because my gut will not let it go.They now will barely talk to eachother she still puts herself in his face but he is tryin to ignore her.But i still catch him looking at her body parts and then he tells me u can;t see through my eyes i was not looking at her body parts but my eyes do not lie to me and i know what i see.Me and him have been together since 94 and have 2 kids together so please let me know what u think about this and how i should go about finding out the truth even if i have to sneak around the truth and lie i need to know the truth or is he telling tha truth.Please let me know what u think am i crazy for feeling this way or am i just jealous or is it him that has a problem.Thank u, Well Im sure my story isnt any different, from the others. What do you think about talking to a therapist, just to sort through your issues? He mentioned once, after they got married how he has to stop talking to me, that she almost found out. Please help. My husband cheats on me all the time; friends, friends of friends, friends wives/partners, doesnt matter anymore. . Leaning away from you is a sign of a cheating, lying husband because we lean away from things we want to avoid. Tells me last night that our relationship is boring. This doesn't excuse, condone, negate, or make you forget what Henry did. 1) About three months ago, after I got out of the shower, my husband said I was ugly with a towel on my head and demanded I take the towel off immendiately. I was shocked. I trust him. Im in constant pain. Even when we were driving him to college he was talking to her on the phone and making plans to meet up with her at our sons college town! You are worth more than that. This happened to a friend of mine recently and she waned to know what to do. When accidentally i saw his phone password i tried to open it and bouala there it hoes all the msg. He claims if he was cheating he wouldnt be here, and that an EX is an EX for a reason. I even started up smoking. Please leave him honey!!! Send him packing! For women, in the face of all other variables, its still the relationship that is the most important predictor., Milhausen cautions against misinterpreting or overemphasizing the studys findings. Why do I stay? Sure there was more to it, and i was right. As, he might have his wedding ring back on, but your marriage is far from what it was and will need a lot of hard work before you both feel close and in love again. My depressive thinking is letting me down when I feel cornered. i am so low over the loss of my best friend and Mother I think I might as well just get splitting up over and done with because he will never change. 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